Marriage, in Pakistan, is a lawful joining between a man and a lady. Socially, it isn’t just a connection between the couple yet additionally a collusion between their individual families. Since about 97% of Pakistan’s populace is Muslim the Islamic law (Sharia) is typically watched. From last numerous years, we the Muslims of the cutting edge world have likewise received numerous Indian and British conventions of marriage. The festivals of this event are at the very least an Eid for the particular groups of lady of the hour and prepare
For the most part, these weddings include merriments like the proposition to be engaged, commitment, date settling, dholak days/ends of the week, mayoon, mehndi, sehra bandi, nikaah, rukhsati (baraat), maklawa and end the festival with valima gathering service. When the festival closes, there will be the game plans for lady of the hour and prepare for the special night trek to away/city/nation. At that point there will be the supper solicitations for the new couple from all families. The northern regions of Pakistan are generally picked as the vacation goal; anyway well-off families lean toward abroad special night trip.
Every one of these merriments spread joy in the entire family. The way of life and conventions indicate love and solidarity of families and gift of senior citizens. All the enjoyment of wedding celebrations means the favors of the families upon the hitched couple for a substance marriage life.
Prior to the beginning of these wedding festivities, there are a lot of pre-wedding costs for the two groups of lady and prepare. The extravagant weaved dresses, adornments of both lady of the hour and prepare alongside their relatives. The fundamental home necessities like electrical apparatuses including refrigerator, TV, kitchen things, clothes washers, furniture and bunches of more things. The dimension of uses on relational unions is diverse in regards to the money related status of the families however these days, individuals actually rival each other to demonstrate their strength as far as excess and luxuriousness.
The homes of lady of the hour and prepare before the wedding is called shadi wala ghar by rest of the family because of the progressing pre-wedding arrangements and merriments. These weddings are fun when the family is rich enough to manage the cost of every one of these costs for the wedding. In the event that the lady or prepare’s family can’t convey every one of these costs of the wedding than similar merriments turn into a weight for the family. The conventions and social jumping powers ones to hold up under the costs at any expense to proceed with the wedding celebrations.
Different families constrain the prepare/lady of the hour family to manage these costs for the notoriety of khandaan (family). The prepare or lady’s dad moves toward becoming overburden by taking high-intrigue advances to manage the wedding costs. With the bliss and gift of the wedding in the home, there likewise comes the discouragement and worry against the advances and payable sums for the lavish festivals, meals, celebrations, improvements, and bounty more things.
These days it is necessary for each family to do such flaunting costs for a wedding whether they can manage the cost of or not. It is ending up more troublesome nowadays to choose the marriage. Families continue postponing the relational unions of their youngsters by considering these costs and the cash they requirement for the endowment (Jahez) or haq maher.
For the lady of the hour’s family, there is a tremendous consumption in type of share (jahez) which incorporates nearly everything for the prepare’s home including furniture, home apparatuses, vehicle, garments, and bounty more things. It’s relatively incomprehensible for destitute individuals to shoulder the weight of this stylish share convention. Prepare’s family additionally presents the rundown of their requests against this endowment which ends up necessary for lady’s dad to satisfy till the wedding days.
Not simply the weight for the lady of the hour’s family, there is a rundown of costs on the prep’s family as well. Prepare will undoubtedly pay a gigantic measure of Haq Maher to the lady of the hour in the state of security to keep her upbeat as his better half. From that point onward, the prepare additionally needs to buy the gems for the lady of the hour to wear on the wedding celebrations. He needs to spend the sum more than his yearly pay on the off chance that he draws a great looking sum as pay.
According to the current budgetary position of Pakistan’s populace, there are over 80% individuals which gain underneath PKR 100,000/month. The greater part of these are frightened from bearing the cost of the wedding. On the off chance that we spare the sum we are spending on wedding and help the poor for the relational unions of their youngsters according to Islamic Shariah, at that point we would have the capacity to help everybody in this nation in getting hitched.
This is a similar motivation behind why the rate of sexual maltreatment is expanding in our nation. When the youngsters begin getting hitched at their correct age, this is the manner by which we can help the country in controlling the wrongdoing rate in the nation. You and I can begin from today in demoralizing these lavish method for relational unions and power the families to embrace shariah in these festivals, haq maher, and endowment.
This would likewise favor the couple to live cheerfully in the wake of getting hitched in the light of Shariah as opposed to paying advances in following years which could turn out to be more troublesome for the couple to live joyfully with a lack of adequate assets for everyday costs.